(Originally posted on Sunday, August 21, 2005)
Well, we had two days until the civil ceremony and had rented a car so we could explore the surrounding area in central Germany… But, the best laid plans do go astray!
We woke up on Wednesday morning to rainy whether… We went down and had breakfast in the hotel restaurant; I had many options that kept me on my diet, fortunately. The restaurant was actually located outside the hotel, the Mövenpick, was located on one side of a local shopping mall, a small one, with a much larger mall across the street… The restaurant was actually off the mall, not within the hotel, per se… After breakfast, we went up to the room and got ready to go to Weimar…
We got in the car and started to leave the parking garage when we discovered that we needed to put our parking ticket into a machine on the mall and pay for the time we had been parked, €8 for the overnight stay from 19:00 to 11:00 the next day… So Heather went up, talked to someone who helped her put the money into the machine, and brought back the validated ticket… In the meantime, I was sitting at the exit gate unable to go forward or backward, and basically ‘stuck’…
Once out of the garage, we headed to the A7 autobahn that lead to Weimar. The trip to Weimar, the home of Goethe and Schiller, was about a two hour drive. It was still raining! Now I had always pictured the autobahn as this wide smooth road that permitted speeds of up to 150 kilometers per hour… Well, guess again!
The way to the actual autobahn required me to traverse at least one roundabout. When I encountered this roundabout, I didn’t see that the traffic signal had turn red for me, since my eye level was such that the top of the car roof cut off any view of the signal… I almost had an accident within ten minutes of driving in Germany! Fortunately, I didn’t since I was able to brake in time and finally got onto the correct leg of the roundabout…
This leg, while it would turn into the autobahn, was undergoing extensive repairs, even in the rain. I was trying to get used to the six speed transmission and diesel engine… I was trying to watch my way on an unfamiliar road… I was trying NOT to attend to Grace who was actively signaling with her hands to break, be careful, and otherwise nervous as could be! Poor Gracie, she was very uneasy with this, especially in light of her accident.
Anyway, as we proceeded, the rain got heavier and there were periodic sections of the autobahn closed (the left lane of course) for repair… Heather and Grace were both extolling me to drive carefully; NOT TOO FAST… About 10-15 kilometers outside of Kassel I decided that I did not to endanger either myself or my family by continuing this drive in an increasingly intense storm… I put all pride aside and turned around and returned to Kassel…
We got back to the hotel and I went back to the room while Heather and Grace went window shopping in the two malls… Weather the next day was not much better and I decided not to go to the little cities north of Kassel (on the ‘Fairy Tale Road’) or to the university town of Göttingen…
Grace and Heather went to the place where Tasha was staying to help with wrapping honey jars. I stayed at the hotel reading and working on the computer… At least the hotel had wireless that allowed me to connect my IPAQ with the net to check email and complete a number of other tasks. Grace and Heather returned in the mid-afternoon and we went down to the mall to have a coffee.
We got a call from Tasha’s good grad school friend, Ana Marie, who said that she and Rudi, her German husband, would like to take us to dinner that evening. We agreed and were to meet in the hotel lobby and then proceed to the restaurant for dinner. When the time came, we went down to dinner and had a delightful time.
A little about Rudi… He is a web designer and he, Grace and I had much to talk about… I showed him some of my toys and he was fascinated. We talked with Ana Marie, the matron of honor at the wedding about all the plans. About 21:30, Tasha and Isti showed up unexpectedly and we went through a series of photo shoots and captured much on film (both real and digital)…
We departed late with good feelings all around and looking forward to the civil ceremony the next day. We arranged for Rudi to come by the hotel and drive us out to the location of the civil ceremony, since he was familiar with the area, at least much more familiar with the driving habits of the Germans!
More on the civil ceremony in the next installment…
Jerry



We briefly discussed the activities of the week, which did not really include any more get together of families until Friday. Tasha still didn’t like the idea of us going to Weimar the next day (Wednesday, or Mittag) with Heather, but said that she was glad that we had something to do, since she had work for one of her jobs to finish up… On Thursday (or, Donnerstag), Grace and Heather were to help Tasha package the honey and do other tasks in preparation for the wedding…
Therefore, we decided to take the second option, which meant that we would have about an hour and one half wait for the 16:42 train from this Bahnhof that would take us straight to Kassel’s Bahnhof Wilhemshöhe… This would not only give us time to get to the platform, but would also give us a chance to eat some lunch… We opted for this option and made the reservations.
When we got in, there was a cart waiting to take us to the entrance and help us off with our baggage. We got off and there were Tasha, Heather and Isti! How good it was to see all of them again. They helped us get our baggage to the AVIS counter (across the parking lot) and I completed the paperwork on the rental car reserved for our stay in Kassel…
In the mid-1870′s, my father’s family, the Börner’s, had emigrated to the United States and settled in a small farming community in western Minnesota… Herman, Minnesota, to be precise. I have a book that details the history of that region given to me by my father; it talks about my great-great-great-grandfather traveling with his family to that community. It documents the marriage of the children and the presence there of the Boerner (the ö being transliterated to oe) family band. They were farmers and fairly well-to-do; their journey from Germany had apparently taken place about the time that Bismark created a united German state in 1872… I don’t know additional history related to these events, but I do know that my father’s family had moved to the St. Louis Park suburb of St. Paul so that he and his brother’s could attend high school. During the depression, they moved to California.
Hence, my roots ran deep! This was the land of my forefathers and this was all enabled by the pending marriage of our oldest daughter Tasha. We were going to Kassel in northern Hesse for her wedding. And we were to meet our future in-laws as well for the first time.








Secondly, after checking in and getting into our room, which was just as nice as remembered, we were told that the pool could only be used on a reservation basis; we needed to make a reservation for an hour only since so many children were there with their families and that exceeded the safe capacity of the pool area…
Thirdly, when we went to dinner that evening, we had a difficult time getting a table, especially one accessible to me with my walker… We finally were seated at a table far enough away from the tables with 5-6 children… But that did not end the disaster; the waiters were so tuned into everyone ordering the buffet that it took about 20 minutes to get the attention of a waiter… And then they seemed almost ignorant of how to take a special order and serve something besides beverages… The food was tolerable, but we ate most of the rest of our meals in the bar after 8 pm to avoid most of the kids…
Getting to the correct train was not a problem and on the way there, we were in a relatively new coach… We were traveling 2nd class, so we had many families in the coach who were on holidays… It was loud, but tolerable… It seems that English families tolerate much more disruptive behavior in their children than American ones…
We got to Edinburgh in about 4 hours and went on a bus tour of the city… The main train station, Waverly Station, was interesting… I am attaching a picture of a large banner on display there for the latest Harry Potter book; I will be bringing back a copy of the English version…
The buildings are phenomenal! Many date back to the 12th and 13th centuries and are incredible sites… The Edinburgh castle was a very imposing view from anywhere in the city… We were there on the second day of the Festival, and Grace encountered many performance groups ‘drumming` up business for their festival productions when she explored the ‘Royal Mile’…
Our train trip back to London was less than spectacular… The train was overbooked, which meant that people were standing in the isles and there was no appropriate storage for mz walker… The coaches were older and the seats wre uncomfortable… AND THE TRAIN WAS FULL OF FAMILIES WITH MISBEHAVING KIDS!
And, then, we had to catch our flight to Frankfurt at 10:40 in the morning… More on that later…